All Flowers in time bend toward the Sun...

In a society fueled by the internet and a constant up-to-date connection with all things happening in the world, it's no wonder that patience has become a rare commodity. Instant gratification runs rampant in most all facets of our life, and as of late, this has led to impatience with all things that are more than a mouse-click away. I've come to notice that this is has even transferred into horses, especially in today's youth. This generation cannot fathom a life without internet or a cell phone, and I hate to say it, but they've grown to expect the same ease and quick results to translate into achieving perfection with their horses. I'm not ragging on the kids of today, it's really not their fault; I'm just here to point out that horse riding is a sport that cannot be fazed by modern convenience. A horse and rider need the old-fashioned factor of time. It's inescapable. But time is also what keeps horse riding pure and honest--if it was easy and quick, winning would be an everyday occurrence, and what fun would that be? The fun of horses is in the journey, and this road to the top isn't short or consistent, but you'll be a better rider because of it. Horses can be tough animals to get on the same page with, and your relationship with them shouldn't be rushed. You and your horse will evolve together, but getting to know your horse, both in and out the show ring takes time. The time you spend with your horse will turn into trust, love, and will help you grow as both a person and rider. And the end product will make everything worth it!

Just keep in mind a few key words. Patience. Persistence. Purpose. Everything is not going to come together in a few months or even a year. But as long as you stay patient with yourself and your horse, practice with persistence, and ride with purpose, keeping your goal in mind, you can stay on the right track. I will say that the horses I've won with took years to get to that "winning" point, but it makes the win that much sweeter knowing that all the hard work paid off in the end. I wouldn't change a thing about the lengthy, arduous process from first to last ride on any of them. Each one gave me experiences and memories that haven't faded in the years since I last rode them. One of my favorite song's lyrics read "all flowers in time bend toward the sun," and I believe this couldn't be more fitting. Don't ever give up hope on your horse because time will allow you and your horse to bloom and grow towards the light of trust and oneness.

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